Everyone thought I was confident and on the right track...

But inside I was secretly insecure and full of anxiety. 

I ran a successful travel agency, owned my own home, travelled alone often. 

People thought I was confident and doing well.

 

But I worried all the time about what others were thinking of me. I was constantly anxious about not doing enough or being enough. And I drank a lot of wine in the evenings to make myself feel better. 

 

My life looked good on the outside but it did not feel so good on the inside. 

I was full of anxiety, insecurity and self-doubt

I remember feeling immense dread every-time I came to the end of an overseas trip and new I had to go back home to my ‘reality’. 

I new something needed to change. 

 

If any of this sounds vaguely familiar then I want to offer you the lesson I learnt the hard way (literally by quitting the job, renting the house & moving to the otherwise of the globe with no family or friends), literally the HARD way. 

 

And here it is: 

Changing my circumstances did not make me feel better. 

Changing the outside world, the things around me (the job, the house) did not make me feel better. 

Even when I got down to my lightest weight ever I was NOT happy, in fact I was miserable & thought I needed to loose more weight or get liposuction on my thighs before I could be happy!

 

Feeling better came when I learned how to manage my own brain. It came from learning how to stop beating myself up all the time. 

 

Learning this was like letting go of a heavy backpack I had been carrying around for years. I finally got to just take it off & walk away… 

 

It was like someone had finally said to me: There is nothing wrong with you. 

Feeling better came when I learned how to manage my own brain. It came from learning how to stop beating myself up all the time.

Learning this was like letting go of a heavy backpack I had been carrying around for years. I finally got to just take it off & walk away… 

It was like someone had finally said to me: There is nothing wrong with you. 

Now I have the ability to create feelings of confidence, worth and self-belief. I feel like the whole world has opened up to me. I feel empowered. 

Everything makes so much more sense now. Not just because I feel better, but because I get to teach women like you these tools on a daily bases (and watch as their whole world change as self-criticism, shame, guilt and anxiety melt away).

Hi, I’m Xena, the creator of all things Solo Women Travel Tribe. It’s nice to finally meet you!

Here are a few random facts about me to get us better acquainted.

  • I am a Certified Life Coach
  • I don’t do woo-woo manifestation, law of attraction stuff
  • I am passionate about Solo Travel for women because I believe it is one of the most empowering things we will ever do!
  • I started a Facebook group that has almost 40,000 women (holy crap!)
  • I love cats (I am a not-so-secret crazy cat lady) 
  • I believe women can be, do and have anything they dam well want!
  • I love the word magical 
  • I am on a mission to free as many women as possible from the internal struggle by teaching them the tools of how to manage their own brains and coach themselves
  • I swear often
  • I believe that vulnerability builds connection and I like to share my vulnerable stuff with y’all 
  • I’m not from Texas or America and yet I love to say y’all 

 

Ok I could ramble on with more random facts about me but you are not here for that… 

You are here because you want to feel better and you think maybe I can help. And you’re right!

I teach women how to manage their own brains and how to coach themselves.

 

This is the art of mindset and it’s much more than just thinking positive and sharing a few inspirational quotes.

It is a daily practice that is focused on the thoughts you think, the feelings you feel and the actions you take. Because ultimately those are what create your results.

 

Let’s get on the phone and chat. What have you go to loose (apart from 1 magical hour with me)…?

I will show you why you feel this way AND I will give you one tool you can use straight away to start feeling better.

 

Together let’s rewire your brain to work for you & not against you. 

Check out what my clients have to say...

“After every session I felt clear and more confident about what I needed to do and how to do it. I also felt really encouraged, and I couldn’t wait to share my achievements in the next session during the week.

I feel like I am getting a chance to be in the drivers seat of my life! I am much better at conscientiously choosing what I want and what feelings I want to create/how I want to feel about the things in my life. Also I have a life, and identity that I value, outside of work.”

– Natasha Murachver, New Zealand

“I never thought I would invest in a life coach, but since I’ve met Xena I have quit smoking, started a side business, built my website and lost weight while travelling through Europe!

It’s incredible how she’s able to break down barriers, clear the clutter in my mind and put me on a path that has me excited to get out of bed every morning.

She’s such a warm, funny and loving person. Her life coaching has been life-changing! I couldn’t recommend her more!”

– Georgia Kirby, Australia