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I gave a talk last night in front of 120 people.

I gave a talk last night in front of 120 people.
I talked about my journey to become a full time digital nomad & Life Coach
My brain literally told me "I might die."
And I sure as hell felt like it sitting there waiting to speak.
But I did it anyway. .
And afterwards my brain whispered to me "Hey, you didn't die... maybe we could do that again."
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Huge shout out to Mark + Carina for putting on an awesome event. And to all of the creators who showcased videos and got up to speak - you guys are amazing and so dam inspiring!! ❤️

Think about the woman you want to become. The wom

Think about the woman you want to become.
The woman who has achieved your goals and is living the life you want to live.
Think about her, embrace her, be her.
And from THAT place ask yourself this:
What would she do TODAY?
How would she show up, what would she decide, what would she commit to or let go of?
The sooner you start living from THAT place... the sooner you BECOME HER.

Is indecision holding you back? . I’ve caught my

Is indecision holding you back?
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I’ve caught myself stuck in indecision these past few weeks.
I one minute I have decided to move away from solo travel to grow my coaching business
The next I am all in on helping solo travellers & utilising the community I have created. .
I keep watching myself go back & forth, back & forth.
Now that I have caught it I see it has been happening for a while… .
And here’s what i’m afraid of: Making the wrong decision & then feeling regret in the future. .
But what if there really were no wrong decisions? What would I WANT to do to then? .
I heard another coach speak the other day & she said just flip a dam coin!
Assign your two choices to each of the coin then flip it.
You’ll workout pretty quickly whether it feels like the right choice or not.
You will either feel happy it landed that way up or not!
DECSION MADE.
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How much time are we spending going back & forth stuck in indecision and without actually going anywhere..?
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Here’s what I have decided to do: I am moving away from solo travel & I am growing my coaching business.
I am committed to this decision & I am backing myself NO MATTER WHAT.
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When the doubts & fears creeps in (and they always will) I will choose not to believe them and I will coach myself through it.
I will create feelings of confidence & trust in my mind, with my thoughts.
I will comfort myself & show my brain WHY this is the best decision & I will keep taking action in-spite of those fears & doubts.
I will support myself.
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Where are YOU putting off making a decision…?
By not making a decision now you are trying to avoid experiencing regret in the future. But what if there was no regret, because there are no wrong decisions?! Make a decision, manage your mind & support yourself no matter what.
You’ve got this!
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But inside I was secretly insecure & full of anxie

But inside I was secretly insecure & full of anxiety.
I ran a successful travel agency, owned my own home, travelled alone often.
People thought I was confident & doing well.
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But I worried all the time about what others were thinking of me.
I was constantly anxious about not doing enough or being enough.
I drank alot of wine in the evenings to make myself feel better. .
My life looked good on the outside but it did not feel so good.
I remember feeling immense dread every-time I came to the end of an overseas trip & new I had to go back home to my ‘reality’
I new something needed to change. .
If any of this sounds vaguely familiar then I want to offer you the lesson I learnt the hard way (literally by quitting the job, renting the house & moving to the otherwise of the globe with no family or friends), literally the HARD way. .
And here it is:
Changing my circumstances did not make me feel better.
Changing the outside world, the things around me (the job, the house) did not make me feel better.
Even when I got down to my lightest weight ever I was NOT happy, in fact I was miserable & thought I needed to loose more weight or get liposuction on my thighs before I could be happy!
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Feeling better came when I learned how to manage my own brain
It came when I learnt that I was responsible for how I felt (not anybody or anything else)
It came from learning that what I think creates the way that I feel
And knowing that what I think it ALWAYS optional
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Learning this was like letting go of a heavy backpack I had been carrying around for years. I finally got to just take it off & walk away… .
It was like someone had finally said to me: There is nothing wrong with you. .
Learning to understand & manage my brain has been the best lesson & gift I have ever received. And now I am on a mission to free other women from this prison inside our own heads ❤️

Want to know HOW to work & travel from anywhere?!?

Want to know HOW to work & travel from anywhere?!?
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I’ll tell you the secret
You’re not going to like it… >>> You need to let go of the how
Let go of there being this ONE specific way
One correct way that is HOW it is done
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Think of going on a road trip somewhere new.
You don’t know exactly how to get there
But you have a GPS and your follow it
You have a plan & you stick to it
But you don’t see the roadworks, the traffic jam or the pot hole that gives you a flat tyre
So you have to make a few changes, review, readjust, learn, ask for help
But you keep going
And sometimes the GPS gets it wrong
But either way you end up at the destination
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When you are so focused on finding the one solution, the ‘best way’
You remove TRYING, you remove finding out what doesn’t work in order to find out what does
You are stuck in needing to find ‘it’
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If you new HOW to do it you would have done it already!
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Start asking yourself: How might I make this happen? What could I try?
And I don’t mean half assed try! I mean find something that resonates with you and full ass it!
Do it and learn
Do it and make it work
Do it and you will learn so much about yourself and your abilities in the process
THEN you will either have it OR you will be a shit load closer to getting it
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#Toughlove #Truth #BelieveInYourself
Huge love my friends ❤️

The number one thing holding us back from living t

The number one thing holding us back from living the life we want is our BELIEFS
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A. We don’t believe it’s truly possible for us
B. We don’t believe WE have what it takes to make it happen
... or we would have it already 😉
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And this is the best news!
Because once we know what we are believing about ourselves & our abilities NOW…
THEN we can decide if we want to go on believing these things
OR if we want to create new beliefs .
Beliefs are just thoughts we think over & over and believe (90% of the time these are on autopilot unconsciously)
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So my question to you is what do you currently believe about yourself & your ability to achieve the life you want?
Really truly think about that for a minute… .
Awareness is the first step.
Once we are aware of our current beliefs, THEN we can begin to make changes. .
What we think (our beliefs) create the way that we feel
What feel drives our actions
And the actions we take create our results in life. .
Huge love my friends ❤️
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P.S This is the first step I take my clients through when we start coaching together. We uncover the beliefs you have about yourself & your life and together we create new beliefs & put together a plan to re-train your mind to think these on autopilot & set you up for success!

There is no magic job that allows you to work & tr

There is no magic job that allows you to work & travel all over the globe. .
And anyone who tells you there is is either selling something or lying (probably both!)
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I searched for YEARS to find a job that allowed me to live a luxurious lifestyle, sipping cocktails on a beach, travelling around and working a few hours a day from my laptop.
I typed ALL the possible search options into google…
How to make money online
How to become an instagram influencer
How to work and travel
How to get YouTube famous
How to get travel writing jobs
How to get paid to travel
How to become a paid travel blogger
How to become a travel influencer
Just to name a few….
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And you know what I have learnt.
You have to put in the hard work (that means you have to DO work) in order to create this lifestyle.
It does not happen overnight
It does not happen for free
It does not happen because you enrolled in a course
It does not happen because you keep wishing for it
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It happens when you MAKE IT HAPPEN FOR YOURSELF.
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Want to know some possible ways?
Start building your own side hustle whilst working your 9-5
Start trying a bunch of things
Start learning what doesn’t work (without calling it failure)
And start to find what does work
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And most of all remember this: Anything worth doing or having in life is earnt.
You EARN the right (by working hard to make it happen) to live a life that allows you to travel and work from anywhere.
There is no magic job.
BUT you have the ability to create one for yourself.
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What are you telling yourself you will do someday.

What are you telling yourself you will do someday...?

Solo travel changes your perspective on a lot of t

Solo travel changes your perspective on a lot of things, mostly because it shows you just how strong and capable you really are... ❤️

People always ask me HOW - How you get a job that

People always ask me HOW
- How you get a job that allows you to travel and work from anywhere?
- How do you travel so much?
- How do you make money online?
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And here is the answer:
YOU TRY THINGS
YOU TAKE MASSIVE ACTION
AND YOU KEEP GOING UNTIL YOU ((YES YOU)) FIGURE IT OUT.
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Because here’s the thing…
>>> There is no one size fits all. There is no right way.
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What I did, is different to what you will do.
My HOW is not your how.
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And you won’t know how you get there, how you make it happen… UNTIL YOU DO
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There is not magic formula (trust me if there was I would give it to y’all!) You just have to try, to start somewhere,
To be willing to fail, to be willing to learn.
Hell you have to be willing to find what DOESN’T WORK, in order to find what does.
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When I catch myself saying “how do I do that?!”
I rephrase with “what can I try in order to figure this out?”
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You won’t know how you do it UNTIL YOU DO… .
So what are you willing to do in order to figure the ‘how’ out…?
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Huge love my friends ❤️

😱 I go against the grain. 😱 I don’t follow

😱 I go against the grain. 😱 I don’t follow the crowds. 😱 And I don’t let my past dictate my future. .Someone asked: What sets me apart, why I’m different? And this is what I said… . >>> I make decisions based on the future I want to create (insert selling my house to go all in on the future I want for myself) >>> I created my own path (insert my career as The Solo Travel Coach) >>> I don’t wait for anyone or anything else before I start (insert travelling all over the globe on my own) .Decisions are what create the life you have, they are what led you to where you are today (the job, the house, the travel). If you want something different then you have to start making different decisions. .And your past is not a representation of your future - your past is behind you are you are heading forward into a world full of possibilities & opportunities. .So, next time you are faced with a decision ask yourself this: What would future me do?
The women you want to become who is living the life you want to lead, what would she do? How would she handle this decision? How would she show up? . ❤️ Remember, If you want a different life then you have to start making different decisions. .Huge love my friendsXena xx

Fear. It can be useful. Or it can be holding us b

Fear.
It can be useful. Or it can be holding us back.
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When we are forced into fight or flight mode - fear is useful.
But 90% of the time we aren’t in this state & our fear is not serving us.
In fact, it’s holding us back.
Trust me, I know… .
I held back on going full time, on taking the leap to work for myself full-time inside SWTT.
I held back out of fear of failure
Out of fear of what other people might think (both if I failed or if I succeeded)
Out of fear of not being good enough
Out of fear of not knowing enough
Out of fear of not being the ‘right person’ to do this
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That holding back didn’t serve me. It didn’t help me in any way - It just kept me feeling comfortable & safe. .
I remember asking myself SO WHAT…?
SO WHAT if I fail? I will learn what works & then re-adjust & keep going.
SO WHAT if other people think ‘stuff’ and have opinions about me? It only hurts if I believe what they are saying & it always means more about them & who they are, not me.
SO WHAT if I am not good enough? I just get to decide I am good enough. Period.
SO WHAT if I don’t know enough? I will figure it out, watch me!
SO WHAT if I am not the right person? I will become the right person.
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Think of that thing you are wanting to do but you’re afraid to do it AND ask yourself: SO WHAT? ... What will YOU choose to make it mean?
Because ultimately YOU get to decide. .
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❤️ Huge love my friends xx

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